WOW Noelle, how are you doing now ... over a year later? I hope you were just having a really bad June 12TH 2014. I live in L.A. -- Sherman Oaks to be exact... south of the blvd .... I also live in Scottsdale, half the year. I go back & forth pretty much on a monthly basis for personal reasons so it isn't like being a snow bird. For the most part, I spend several weeks (6 to 8) in each place pretty consistently. In fact, I have a home there so it's not like I don't know what it's like to actually LIVE in both places. I don't stay at a hotel or anything like that. I could tell you that I haven't had any of that snobby attitude in Scottsdale, but that would be as true as saying I haven't had any of it in L.A. either. But Noelle, there are snobby, nasty people everywhere. I will say that I've run into extremely nice, kind people in both places as well though. You have to give it time honey. By now I would hope that you've settled in and are happy. The lifestyles ARE vastly different however, you simply won't find the same vibe you do in Los Angeles. But you would find a different vibe of people in NY as well. Scottsdale may be a little younger, and with youth sometimes comes the uncertainty of who you are, who you want to be .... that leads to sometimes, trying personalities on for size I suppose. You just keep being you, Noelle, because you wouldn't want to relate or spend time with anyone who didn't see you for exactly who you are anyway. Be authentic and don't preconceive notions of who people are before you get a chance to make them comfortable to be themselves with you. I hope you're completely comfortable now, aren't as homesick and have a wonderful fulfilled life. But if not quite yet, I hope my words can help!
J |
Scottsdale, AZ |
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