Review of Richmond, Virginia


2015 - Negative vibes and a culture of mediocrity
Star Rating - 2/6/2016
I've lived in Richmond for 7 months now after being forced to move here from Dallas-Fort Worth due to health issues. Before that, I lived in Los Angeles-Orange County for 5 years, and I was raised in southeast Michigan (Flint and Detroit).

I am trying to be fair with the following review, though it may not seem like it. I really wanted to like Richmond.

Within the first three days Richmond struck me as a southern Detroit without the cosmopolitan benefits and amenities of the Detroit metro area, and this view has only been solidified the longer I stay.

The impression I get is that the city feels like an old, run down dollar store where a couple aisles sell fine rugs and Patek Philippe watches on shelves made of oak and stone, and one aisle sells craft beer.

I wish I could say that the city was as vibrant or energetic as it is sometimes advertised to be, but it's not. There are fancy historical buildings and some new things, but I feel like there is a culture of mediocrity, complacency, and apathy. On top of this, the city is gritty, spooky, and tough feeling, and this provides some excitement for suburban young people who want to "make a difference."

The combination of complacency and toughness is very unnerving to me, and it reminds me of someone who is repressed -- someone who wants to just BUST OUT but feels trapped. I am generally a vibrant, outspoken person, but I feel like it's been beaten out of me here. It's hard to describe.
Brian | Richmond, VA
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If you are sensitive and intuitive about these kinds of cultural differences, I'd say to visit for a week or so and see what you think.
Brian | Richmond, VA | Report Abuse

I understand completely! After growing up in New Jersey and living in SoCal many years this place is mentally draining. Being outspoken which is something I can't just drop (growing up in the Northeast) doing this in the RVA this will make you viewed as rude/tacky. Also the fact people aren't direct & often say something in public to appear polite and then I hear from others, so and so says I'm this or that. As opposed to just telling me "hey we have a problem" or "i don't like you." The food isn't bad. As for the city the West end (Henrico) is way cleaner. If you ever wanna hear some real horror stories drop me a line. Best The wiseguy from Atlantic City
J.C. | Richmond, VA | Report Abuse

Brian - thank you for your comments. My husband and I are considering retiring to Richmond from Southern California because of its proximity to DC where our son lives, its affordability, and its potential. According to our son, the NOVAs (Northern Virginians) are moving into the area, which is helping to bring sophistication and gentrification to the area. What is your long-term prognosis for Richmond?
Nancy | Murrieta, CA | Report Abuse
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