Review of Raleigh, North Carolina


Southerners and Yankees
Star Rating - 11/13/2012
I would like to reply to the unhappy comments from our friends from the northern states. There were many that stated we southerners were unfriendly, hated "Yankee's" and that you just did not fit in. Truthfully I am rather shocked as Southerns are known for being some of the most friendly and welcoming people in the world. I was born and raised in the South and have never heard anyone say they hated Yankees. I will tell you what I have seen and that is the people from the north relocating here in the south and the first thing they wish to tell us southerns is everything they preceive to be wrong with the south. If we and our southern states are so distasteful to you then why are so many northerners moving to the south to work, some to retire? I would like to respectfully suggest that instead of telling us what is wrong with our southern home that we cherish and are proud of, maybe you should try to adapt more to our way of life. This is our home and heritage, if you wish to "fit in"...please consider not judging, keeping negative comments to yourself and trying to understand us and soon you may find that you may actually like us. There are two things you should always remember when you have a negative thought regarding us. 1. Southerners are known for big hearts and giving you the shirt off our back if needed. 2. We put a whole lot of stock in manners ;-)
Abhd | Anderson, SC
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I'm from New Hampshire my son just decided to attend NC State over Northeastern and other New England schools. I was initially a little concerned that my son might have a harder time making friends because he is a "Yankee". However, at an accepted students tour, I mentioned to another parent, from NC, that my son would not be able to travel home often. Later in that day she sought me out to say "your son will stay at our house for holidays" even though she had met just me hours earlier. He also did some activities with other perspective students, mostly from NC, and he said he felt at home. Another parent from NC initially said that there are cultural difference, but after we had lunch together, it was apparent the we both had the same interests/goals - get our kids a good education and find a way to pay for it. I think that most unfriendliness is just an outdated perception.
Burr | Bartlett, NH | Report Abuse

So typical... a post proclaiming good ole southern charm devolving into an anti-yankee rant! We've "lived" in 'Spraleigh' now for 11 years... and will leave the day our youngest graduates high school. The natural scenery here is positive (other than the related allergies), as are the mild winters. The job market here is strong if not diverse, and the relative price of housing is reasonable (although rents are very high generally). Also there are some good museums and greenways/parks. Other than the above positives though... the people here are generally rude, crude and uneducated (despite having degrees mostly from UNC (WAY overrated and ranked based on OUT OF STATE admission), NCSU (good in Engineering), ECU & NCCU (terrible schools academically)... and hate yankees and anyone else not like them.
scott | Raleigh, NC | Report Abuse

Well said. I am from Chicago and I 100% agree with you. When relocating to a new area, its your responsibility to adapt to the culture and the people, not the other way around. Between the ridiculous taxes in Illinois, corrupt, rude people, this is not the city I was born and raised. People used to be decent and family oriented but that's all changed for the worst. Take care and keep posting. Soon-to-be-ex-Chicagoan
Fiona | Glen Ellyn, IL | Report Abuse
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