I have lived in Steubenville for five years and I have to honestly say this is the most depressed area I have ever lived in. The people are friendly only if you are familiar, meaning if you have a different perspective on life you are told to shut up and sit down by the mase majority. I felt as if I had driven into a bubble of closed mindedness. The town and people are lost in the 1940's and I have been told the same stories over and over about how this place was happening back then. Well all that is happening now is crime. Organized crime, drugs, and prostitution. The drugs and prostitution are right out in the open and the people that live here are fully aware of it. Now, Steubenville is not a large city, small in comparison to many places and it is very odd that the police have not stopped this from happening. The criminals are in plain sight. You do the math. The prejudiceness is horrible here. I have lived in the deep south and the people here are right on key with some of the worst I've come accross. Being a professional is looked at by who you know not your skill sets. Their are ample religious groups and a variety of them. Again you are treated like an outsider when you attend. I spoke with a business owner that has been here for ten years and was told when he moved here he went to the chamber of commerance, joined a church and has been an upstanding citizen, he has still in ten years yet to be welcome to the area. Women are treated lowly or stick to their families. Strong independent women are looked down on and as if they should be broken, unless they come from an old family from the area with money. I spoke with an official in the steubenville juvenile detention center (without mentioning names) that assured me it was appropriate for parents to beat their kids when they talk back (he does) and if they had too they would put a child in custody as a ripe green pumpkin and send them off to prison when they were of age to become nice and orange. They love the business! My response is I think there are actually laws protecting animals against that behavior. There is a masive breakdown in this town and it is extremely unhealthy. Every form of power that I have seen demonstrated is of a street mentality. Power asserted through put downs, negativity, and aggregated means. No progressive positive outlook or actions. Now you may think I am being negative I am not, I am telling you like it is. This is a family orianted area which is completely mind boggling. The only good thing for the children is sports in the schools and the parents and adults involved become mini Nazi soldiers where it is all about them competing for attention and the children used as a means to do so, it's embarrasing and detrimental to the growth of these young minds for the adults to relize their examples. The pedifiles are regarded as a common occurance and I was told to just get used to it by an attorney that it is "COMMON" in this area? Does that equate to exceptable? I worked in the hospital for three years on several wings in the hospital I was told "sexual harrasment was common, completely unexceptable but, (without stopping to take a breath) we are all very close and we do not like problems so we try to handle that internally." Nice! I was also informed that the police and the hospital employees are very close along with the attorneys. No hint intended I'm sure. Employeement is very scarce, I was forchinate to have an aunt employeed with the hospital but the neighbor that has moved here from Nebraska who is a great individual and has an impecable resume, skill set and personality has been told on numours interviews that she was nice and they liked her but asked her "she isn't from the area is that right?" They would be intouch with her. Nice. For the people on the blog that are from Steubenville originally I'd like to say I'm really sorry. You may have been born here and lived here all your life and it is all that you know, but that does not make it ok. The ignorance is abundant and whomever is quoting the crime rates you are equating the population is that correct? Per capita? Much crime here goes unreported and you knoe that as well. An area is only as strong as their leaders maybe its time to look outside of the box before this place falls off the map. Can you walk outside without a care look up at the sky and smile at the neighbors wave and confidently say you are proud of your city? The business and homes that are closed or falling apart down town.... take them down or rebuild we need entrepreneurs to come, open businesses and open up jobs. We need proper care for the mentally ill walking on the streets, adolesent support, how many people are not working that could volunteer their time to clean up this town and bring it back to life. Many homes could use coats of paint, is there a high pressure water business or sand blaster in town to wash away some of the mills stains on these beautiful buldings. Is it enough to say I'm from here and my pride keeps this place going without taking any actions at all. Thank God they are fixing the roads! I am so happy to see this. a huge improvement and movement by why stop there? Honestly people do not speak up here, they are intimidated or beaten down from being here I'm not sure maybe it is the mafia mentality. We need to make this a place we can be proud to raise our children.
Bo |
Steubenville, OH |
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