Review of Raleigh, North Carolina


Do Your Research Before You Move Here
Star Rating - 6/12/2007
I was born and raised in Seattle and moved to Raleigh 4 years ago. We were seeking a smaller town (not too small) and a more traditional way of life that embraced old-fashioned morals and values. We found most of that in the Raleigh area. What has been most disappointing about the area are two things. The attitude of the people that move here from big cities (NY, NJ, Philly, LA, Chicago, and others) wanting a more progressive city and pushing a liberal mentality onto others. I don’t understand why these people get frustrated after moving to a southern town where southerners do not think like them – what did they expect? Plus, what is wrong with saying “yes ma’am or no sir?” I find it to be good manners and a sign of respect. Raleigh is a southern city with southern values, however these “progressives” want to change the city to their way of thinking. These newcomers also make fun of the southerners. I have to say in defense of the southerners, Raleigh is their home and if you don’t like how they speak, how they drive, what they eat, or the fact that they have different morals and values than you, than please think about relocating to a different town because you’d be much happier somewhere else. I chose this city because of the existing way of life, I didn’t come here to change their way of life. If you are a “progressive thinker,” I think it would serve you well to do a little more research and seek a more progressive town than Raleigh.

The second disappointment is the luring of illegal aliens. The city seems to want them to come here and welcomes them with open arms. There are pockets of illegals, not just Hispanics, popping up and crime rates have risen. In the short time I’ve lived here, crime has almost doubled. It’s unfortunate to see this happening, especially in the suburbs around Cary, Garner, and Fuquay-Varina, which used to be peaceful safe towns but no longer.

The last items to consider are the job market and cost of living. The jobs are primarily medical, including biotech and pharmaceutical, high-tech, and agricultural research. There are also lots of jobs in the administrative field and service sector. What I have found is that there are two types of jobs here: the high paying, medical research/technical type jobs that pay around 60K+ and require 10-15 years experience, or there are the low paying administrative and service type jobs that pay 20K – 30K a year. There is not much in between (35K-55K). And the only
Jason | Cary, NC
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it is not as bad as you think. once you put a negative thot into ur head, all you look at is the negative things. try looking at the good things about the city and notice it is not as bad as u think!!! raleigh is a great city!!
elizabeth | Fayetteville, NC | Report Abuse

You are so right, we are unhappy here too! Very disappointed. I am looking into other states myself. If you know of any, please reply. Can't wait to leave.
Mary | Raleigh, NC | Report Abuse

This is for Burt. Safe Schools? Really? Let's see, last year in Wake County Schools there were over 534 gang related incidents. They are "considering" spending millions on extra police forces in the school. Really think that's safe enough for your children Burt?! Now why are they just "considering" this? Gotta love these people. Look up your facts on the internet Burt. Oh and I don't care how many northerners are living here, the mentality still exists. Southerners are as welcoming to Yankees as VD. Some of them are nice, I am not denying that, but a general jealousy exists. Right now I'm too busy to rebut further, but I will when I have time. Oh and by the way my house is on the market. I am dying to get out of this overdeveloped, crime ridden, small minded, overpriced, over rated, over run by illegals, no water, nightmare of a town.
Mary | Raleigh, NC | Report Abuse

Hello Jason. Do you still reside in Raleigh, NC? I am so glad, yet sad that there are others who just are not compatible with Raleigh, NC. For a while I truly thought it was just me.
kay | Raleigh, NC | Report Abuse

We are considering moving to Raleigh from the Northeast, for some of the same reasons you did. But we have some of the same concerns as you. Can you provide more information and/or an update on your situation there? Thanks.
paul | Buffalo, NY | Report Abuse

Mary, I think most people on this message board got your point. You've been posting bad things about Raleigh for few years. So you're either lying and don't live in raleigh anymore, or you haven't left. which is stupid, if you hate this much why haven't you left yet. Jason posting is good and well balanced. but a little racist remark, obviously he doesn't like hispanics, but hides by saying illegals. the city did not welcome illegals with open arms. the builders/developers brought them here for cheap labor to build the thousand of houses going up all over raleigh to accomodate the transplant moving here in droves from all over the country, especially NY, NJ, PA CA MA etc they hear that this area is in the top 5 best places to live in the country and they come. this area is not for everyone, so is any other place in the world. it's just a city with people from all over the place. and nothing southern the way anyone on this board refers to. these are dillusional people who watched and learned what southern is from Hollywood made up movies. hey folks wake up. the yankee go home stuff barely exists. raleigh is more than 80% northerners.
Burt | Morrisville, NC | Report Abuse
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