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This city girl is bored to tears in Austin! - 4/30/2012
I'm from Houston, but, have spent the last almost 6 years living in first Lakeway (scenic burb on Lake Travis - 45 minutes from Austin) and now, right outside of the city of Austin in a home in the new Mueller development. I also spent several years living in Denver, CO and I have traveled extensively locally and abroad (London and Paris).
Saying I am simply 'frustrated' with Austin would be a severe understatement by this point. Being born and raised in a real city filled with culture, diversity and a myriad of entertainment and job opportunities to say I experienced 'reverse culture shock' after I married and moved out to Lakeway would also be a drastic understatement.
There is NOTHING to do either here in Austin, or, in Lakeway if you don't own a boat, or, Love partying (drinking+) out on 4th/6th. Oh, and the + does mean drugs. Most people here are '420' friendly, - you'll learn that term after living here for just a little while. Potheads/druggies, - the city is filled with them. It goes with the long hair and 'body-art'. These people think they are "cool", - if you're an adult with a real life and don't feel the need for tats and body-piercings you might not 'fit-in'. Austin people are not "Weird" they are druggies/alcoholics who are insecure and have emotional issues, - thus the need for all the body-art, etc. They are not "Real" hippies from the 70's like they would like to wish/think that they are because the Real hippies from the 70's had a CAUSE. These idiots have no cause other than trying too hard to look/be 'cool'.
One also must be extremely inventive to find entertainment options in this city. I am caucasian, but, I am used to diversity. The only way I can describe living out in Lakeway for my first 2.5 years out here is that it felt like a very eerie version of a cross between: The Stepford Wives and The movie "Saved!". Throw in the fact that it was almost entirely White and the attitude in the area could only be described as that of "upscale country snobbery." My then Jewish husband and I bought an absolutely stunning home on 1/3 of an acre with hill-country views, huge patios, and a pool. I thought we'd be happy living there but I was sadly mistaken. I'm Christian and thought it would be nice to attend church occasionally. My Jewish husband was gracious enough to attend with me. I felt like punching the Pastor's face in when he told my husband and I that he would 'love to have a Jewish person in his congregation IF he had converted to Christianity." We were NOT welcomed with open arms. We moved from Houston where our social life had been rich and fulfilling and in almost 3-years we lived in Lakeway I can honestly say that we did not make even 1 real friend in the entire area!
We ended up renting the beautiful home to a family who ended up totally trashing it. We had to put tons of $$ into fixing it up and ended up selling it for a fraction of it's worth because of the housing crash that affected every burb outside of the city of Austin.
Fast forward to my time in Austin. My home in Mueller has appreciated over 130k with the renovations we've put into it after we bought it. People keep moving to Austin from CA because they are Stupid! Lol. At least I'll get my $+ back out of this house when I sell it this summer and move back to Houston.
After 5-years of marriage and perhaps a lot of the stress that my soon to be ex and I have experienced living in this "lovely" city. I can now give you my view on city life from the perspective of an attractive, fit, single mother in her mid-thirties:
1. There are NO jobs here. I never had a difficult time finding work in Houston. I am educated and willing/wanting to go back to work after being a stay at home mother. I can not find a job here. Your competition for jobs here are a myriad of newly educated UT students who are wiling to work for nothing so they can keep their Austin party lifestyle for a few more years, and, all the people moving here from CA fighting each other tooth and nail for work, but, I've found that if you are not "In" here, - well-connected, you grew up here and/or went to UT, or, you have friends all over the city, - you will find lots of closed doors. This place is extremely cliquish in every sense.
2. The dating scene is HORRIBLE. I'm 'almost' embarrassed to admit that I dated someone who was 24 and graduating from UT. Unfortunately, he had to move away to take a job elsewhere after he graduated (not many Jobs here, remember?). I met him out on 6th Street one night out with girlfriends (imagine that)! I look like I'm 30-ish so the age difference didn't 'feel' like that big of a deal. He was an athlete, educated, - great! although around 10-years Too young for me, but, This is the dating pool in Austin. Outside of this, - there is not much else. Only a bunch of grown-up babies in their mid-30's to early 40's partying out on 6th street every weekend because there is Not a whole lot else to do around here! The people you will meet are Techies, work for the university, or, will be state-employed, or, in real-estate, or, a starving artist or musician. If you are Lucky, you'll find a doctor or lawyer but remember, - this is a relatively Small city with limited opportunities and a large % of people here are struggling to make a living. I did internet dating for a while and I have to say I met the oddest, most disturbing people through it. These men 'appear' to be normal, - they are in their 30's-40's - a lot of them live in lofts out on 6th - (alcoholics)?? Don't be fooled by the facade, - all it took was 1-date and a bit of conversing to realize that perhaps Austin just puts out an odd product as far as eligible "men" go. I am done with internet dating, not looking to meet another UT student necessarily out on 6th. I have no idea how to meet anyone of substance in this "town".
3. So, no jobs, the dating scene is truly depressing, and, not much to do. NO Pro-sports. NO real art/museum district, No opera, for being 'the music capitol of the world, - not too many large places to see concerts so when someone famous does come to town it sells out very quickly. Popular music venues here have dirt floors (Stubb's), - you can't see the band and they are dirty. Everything from here looks like it is right out of the 1970's including the horrible Children's Museum. AISD Schools are terrible. If you want your child to get a decent education then you must live in Lakeway (aka Stepford), Steiner Ranch (another Stepford area located 45 minutes from the city), Westlake (extremely expensive)!! Which brings me to housing, - it is a joke. I almost can not believe that all of these people are paying the $$ to buy these little "Boxes" in and around the city that is also a Joke. There are a few festivals here, - ACL (best I've been to by far)! SXSW (Crazy, crazy crowded, - not even worth attending), the Zilker Park Kite Festival (Wow, I took my 3-year old and could barely make it in - the bus transportation was so bad and we waited over 2-hours to get there, - no one could get into the area driving/even taxis didn't want to go around it). All for a Kite Fest with very expensive, yucky food I might add!
Austin is a joke. The people who live here are totally full of themselves and this joke of a city that they very strangely fiercely protect. I am a Houstonian and if I ever told another Houstonian. Ya, I love H-town, but, you know, it also sucks. We would have a good laugh together and talk about all the pros and cons of living in the city (as every city does have pros and cons). However, if you tell someone who lives in Austin that you think Austin Sucks they were typically get offended and start an argument with you about how the city is a "Golden Mecca" in the middle of a Texan dump. The attitude around here is disturbing and barely tolerable. The term Austintatious did not come from no where). Google it if you are thinking of moving here and think intently as to whether or not this is the type of attitude that you want to live amongst. The people who live here and think it's so great are either very young (and do not know any better), or, they are moving here from a much smaller city (and don't know any better), or, they are from California. A handful of people move here from Houston and the ones who love it and stay are the people who simply do not need and/or appreciate life on a larger scale which Houston offers, - they are people with smaller mentalities. There is a huge population of international people living in Houston (which I love) but some people do not. It makes them uncomfortable so they move here. Well, I am uncomfortable living around those people who are uncomfortable and that's why I can' wait to sell this house and move home! I used to Love visiting Austin for a long weekend as everything special that can be done and seen here can be done in 1-long weekend: Lunch at the Oasis, jet-skiing on Lake Travis, canoeing on Town Lake, and going out on 4th/6th Street. One weekend. Done. Then back to a real life in the real world.
I loved living in Denver. There was so much to see and do there. Every major attraction under the sun. Skiing and outdoor living in abundance. There is none of that here. No major attractions. This city feels lifeless to me. I don't think I'll come back to Austin even to spend a weekend for a really long time after I move home. Living here has killed it for me.
The traffic in Austin is the WORST in the State of Texas and I read an article that it is now officially the 3rd worse US city for traffic in the US! I heard that the idiots who originally ran this city thought that if they gave the $$ that they were granted for road and highway improvement over to San Antonio instead of improving ours that people just would not move here. It's those same idiots who later hired the best PR firm in the Universe to deem us "The Live Music Capitol of the World???" You've got to be kidding!! And "Keep Austin Weird". Well, Austin is damn weird because now everyone keeps moving here but no one can get anywhere once they are here because they are all stuck in traffic!!!
I know I am not the only person who feels this way. Other people feel that way too. Anyone truly 'different' here stands out like a sore-thumb/not in a good way, - the people at my son's prestigious/stuck-up little enrichment program all turn their noses up at me because I've divorced and am now a single mother. I can see the disdain in their eyes and voices and even though my little boy is extremely intelligent, well-adjusted, and happy in spite of my divorce the director of the school tried to tell me 'he will have emotional problems' because of my divorce. Take your opinion and shove it up your a@@ is what I felt like telling her, but instead, - I bit my tongue. Something I find myself doing often living here. Sharing my opinion on this site feels great though! :))
Once I hurt my leg at the gym and limped around the grocery store around 10pm one night shopping afterwards. I got the $#@! scared out of me when a grocery store cop followed me out to my car after I left the store and said that people thought I had maybe been drinking because I seemed 'distant' and was walking funny. I was going through a divorce and didn't feel like making small talk with the cashier and because I was limping they thought I was drunk! I was so scared when that strange man approached my car window at night. I should have driven off and hit him with my car but instead I had to convince him that I slightly twisted my ankle at the gym and didn't feel like socializing with his employees?!! I could almost not believe it. People around here are busy-bodies. They are so bored - everyone is in each other's business too. I HATE living here and can't wait sell this Big Stucco Box I bought out here for a huge profit to some idiot moving here from Cali and go home!!!!!!!!!!!
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